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Creating Masculine Sexual Polarity

Creating Masculine Sexual Polarity

In this short video from the The Embodied Men's Intensive in New York, John discusses how to claim the masculine pole in any moment and create a natural sexual polarity that serves her, rather than react in irritation.   

ON CIRCULATING SEXUAL ENERGY

ON CIRCULATING SEXUAL ENERGY

In this 5 minute video, shot during the Embodied Men's Leadership Training in New York, John address the masculine practice of being structure to her pleasure during sex.    In addition, he shows how to clear blocks and move more sexual energy in a way that supports non-ejaculatory practice and depth.

Your Heart Is His Oracle

Your Heart Is His Oracle

In this interactive Q+A at the Spiritual Intimacy and Yogic Sexuality retreat, at the Lumeria Maui Resort in September 2017, John and Guru Jagat dig into why a woman's authenticity and moment to moment heartfelt expression, are keys to calling the man back to his highest self. You'll hear real-world examples of how this plays out in relationships, including:

    Keys to Longer and Deeper Sex

    Keys to Longer and Deeper Sex

    In this 5-minute video taken from the Spiritual Intimacy workshop on April 15, 2017 in Santa Monica, John and Guru Jagat discuss the keys to longer and deeper sex.

    Loving and Trusting Through Moments of Fear

    Loving and Trusting Through Moments of Fear

    How do we move forward in those moments of fear that block us from deeper connection?  There are always ways to ask for more of what we want, to surrender more to the groundlessness of love and to keep our hearts open in service to another.

    Ways of Being That Evoke the Best in Your Partner

    Ways of Being That Evoke the Best in Your Partner

    In this 5 minute video, John and Guru Jagat talk about how subtle shifts in perspective can relax, support and really serve your partner. This may require giving up the need to be right and seeing their greatest possibility (rather than what they don't do or where they fall short).

    Fuck Hacking, Go Deep

    Fuck Hacking, Go Deep

    By John Wineland

    If you want your life to unfold as a work of art that expresses the boundless expanse of your consciousness, of who you truly are as a man, Fuck Hacking, Go Deep!

    INTENTIONAL/IMAGO DIALOGUE [VIDEO]

    INTENTIONAL/IMAGO DIALOGUE [VIDEO]

    with John Wineland & Guru Jagat

    The ability to validate what your partner is feeling; then, sincerely empathize and make them feel seen is an incredible tool that will change all of your relationships.  Commit to it for 40 days and see what shifts.

    THE MYTH OF THE GOOD HUSBAND

    THE MYTH OF THE GOOD HUSBAND

    by John Wineland

     A number of men show up on my doorstep, somewhat confused and sad as to why they are hitting a wall in their marriages or long term relationships.  The common refrain is something like “I don’t understand what is going on.  I do everything to take care of her and our family and yet she is still unsatisfied and unhappy.” 

    WHY WE EJACULATE.

    WHY WE EJACULATE.

    by John Wineland

    We did 2 hours of focused sexual practice this weekend in 6 Month Advanced Group I do on the subject of ejaculation and circulating sexual energy!! What I always notice is exactly how hard it is to reverse YEARS of habitual ejaculatory process through breath, yogic and meditative practice. 

    3 WAYS TO DEEPEN INTIMACY IN ANY MOMENT [VIDEO]

    3 WAYS TO DEEPEN INTIMACY IN ANY MOMENT [VIDEO]

    by John Wineland

    Virtually everyone wants more intimacy!  Questions I am asked by men and women constantly are, “How can I connect with my woman/man ANYTIME??  How do we stay connected?  And how can I create connection when we are distant or mad at each other?”  And the truth is people over complicate this.  What most don’t know is that there are some very simple awareness practices that can create 

    3 WAYS TO TRANSFORM JEALOUSY INTO DEEP TRUST AT ANY MOMENT [VIDEO]

    3 WAYS TO TRANSFORM JEALOUSY INTO DEEP TRUST AT ANY MOMENT [VIDEO]

    by John Wineland

    Using jealousy as an opportunity to create intimacy, trust and turn on requires courage, creativity and a commitment to authenticity, but the benefits are worth it!

    In this video, Men’s Coach and Sexual Intimacy Teacher John Wineland, explains how the moment when jealousy is running through our bodies is the precisely when we act, and how we canartfully work with it as it comes up.