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ON CIRCULATING SEXUAL ENERGY

ON CIRCULATING SEXUAL ENERGY

In this 5 minute video, shot during the Embodied Men's Leadership Training in New York, John address the masculine practice of being structure to her pleasure during sex.    In addition, he shows how to clear blocks and move more sexual energy in a way that supports non-ejaculatory practice and depth.

Keys to Longer and Deeper Sex

Keys to Longer and Deeper Sex

In this 5-minute video taken from the Spiritual Intimacy workshop on April 15, 2017 in Santa Monica, John and Guru Jagat discuss the keys to longer and deeper sex.

Ways of Being That Evoke the Best in Your Partner

Ways of Being That Evoke the Best in Your Partner

In this 5 minute video, John and Guru Jagat talk about how subtle shifts in perspective can relax, support and really serve your partner. This may require giving up the need to be right and seeing their greatest possibility (rather than what they don't do or where they fall short).

THE LAWS OF LOVE [VIDEO: PART 2]

THE LAWS OF LOVE [VIDEO: PART 2]

In the second video of this three part series, "The Laws of Love,"  John Wineland and Guru Jagat discuss 5 essential ways of being, in service of love.  

WHAT MEN ARE CRAVING [VIDEO]

WHAT MEN ARE CRAVING [VIDEO]

with John Wineland

This talk to a group of powerful coaches addressed the question of what men are craving from the feminine, but are rarely asking.

THE MYTH OF THE GOOD HUSBAND

THE MYTH OF THE GOOD HUSBAND

by John Wineland

 A number of men show up on my doorstep, somewhat confused and sad as to why they are hitting a wall in their marriages or long term relationships.  The common refrain is something like “I don’t understand what is going on.  I do everything to take care of her and our family and yet she is still unsatisfied and unhappy.” 

WHY WE EJACULATE.

WHY WE EJACULATE.

by John Wineland

We did 2 hours of focused sexual practice this weekend in 6 Month Advanced Group I do on the subject of ejaculation and circulating sexual energy!! What I always notice is exactly how hard it is to reverse YEARS of habitual ejaculatory process through breath, yogic and meditative practice. 

3 WAYS TO DEEPEN INTIMACY IN ANY MOMENT [VIDEO]

3 WAYS TO DEEPEN INTIMACY IN ANY MOMENT [VIDEO]

by John Wineland

Virtually everyone wants more intimacy!  Questions I am asked by men and women constantly are, “How can I connect with my woman/man ANYTIME??  How do we stay connected?  And how can I create connection when we are distant or mad at each other?”  And the truth is people over complicate this.  What most don’t know is that there are some very simple awareness practices that can create 

3 WAYS TO TRANSFORM JEALOUSY INTO DEEP TRUST AT ANY MOMENT [VIDEO]

3 WAYS TO TRANSFORM JEALOUSY INTO DEEP TRUST AT ANY MOMENT [VIDEO]

by John Wineland

Using jealousy as an opportunity to create intimacy, trust and turn on requires courage, creativity and a commitment to authenticity, but the benefits are worth it!

In this video, Men’s Coach and Sexual Intimacy Teacher John Wineland, explains how the moment when jealousy is running through our bodies is the precisely when we act, and how we canartfully work with it as it comes up.