by John Wineland

Using jealousy as an opportunity to create intimacy, trust and turn on requires courage, creativity and a commitment to authenticity, but the benefits are worth it!

In this video, Men’s Coach and Sexual Intimacy Teacher John Wineland, explains how the moment when jealousy is running through our bodies is the precisely when we act, and how we canartfully work with it as it comes up.

There are 3 Rules to follow:

  1. Own it!
  2. Play With it
  3. Get Vulnerable

When we are able to relax into the moment like this, rather than pointing our intense emotions at our partners, trust, intimacy and even sexual energy emerge as our humanity and honesty create completely new possibilities for relating with one of the most difficult of human emotions.

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