The Essential Masculine Practice

The Essential Masculine Practice

In this short video from the October 2017 Embodied Men's Leadership Intensive in New York, John describes the basic steps to the essential masculine practice: relax your body, place your awareness into a person or situation, and wait for an impulse.

Creating Masculine Sexual Polarity

Creating Masculine Sexual Polarity

In this short video from the The Embodied Men's Intensive in New York, John discusses how to claim the masculine pole in any moment and create a natural sexual polarity that serves her, rather than react in irritation.   

ON CIRCULATING SEXUAL ENERGY

ON CIRCULATING SEXUAL ENERGY

In this 5 minute video, shot during the Embodied Men's Leadership Training in New York, John address the masculine practice of being structure to her pleasure during sex.    In addition, he shows how to clear blocks and move more sexual energy in a way that supports non-ejaculatory practice and depth.

Your Heart Is His Oracle

Your Heart Is His Oracle

In this interactive Q+A at the Spiritual Intimacy and Yogic Sexuality retreat, at the Lumeria Maui Resort in September 2017, John and Guru Jagat dig into why a woman's authenticity and moment to moment heartfelt expression, are keys to calling the man back to his highest self. You'll hear real-world examples of how this plays out in relationships, including:

    On Choosing a Woman 

    On Choosing a Woman 

    A women wants to know you desire her deeply, but don't need her.  She needs to know you will be full and complete without her, even if your heart is broken at her absence.  This is crucial in her ability to trust your leadership of yourself and the relationship. 

    Keys to Longer and Deeper Sex

    Keys to Longer and Deeper Sex

    In this 5-minute video taken from the Spiritual Intimacy workshop on April 15, 2017 in Santa Monica, John and Guru Jagat discuss the keys to longer and deeper sex.

    The Entry Point for Deep Men's Practice

    The Entry Point for Deep Men's Practice

    Do you know where to start in more powerfully leading in your life and your relationships? The answer may surprise you. 

    I was talking with a man yesterday who was in one of my workshops in London, and he asked me this very question. These are variations of questions I often get from men:

    Loving and Trusting Through Moments of Fear

    Loving and Trusting Through Moments of Fear

    How do we move forward in those moments of fear that block us from deeper connection?  There are always ways to ask for more of what we want, to surrender more to the groundlessness of love and to keep our hearts open in service to another.

    Russian Breath Practice

    Russian Breath Practice

    This is an easy Meditation and breath practice that is great for relaxed expansion of breath capacity.  I  have added my own elements and flavor. It was originally taught by Russian Masters as a way to train warriors and athletes to develop strength and stamina without stress. Start with 5-10 minutes in sitting and then start to use the breath while exercising.

    Deepening Your Spiritual and Sexual Intimacy

    Deepening Your Spiritual and Sexual Intimacy

    In this 18 minute video from the Spiritual Intimacy workshop April 15th,  John and Guru Jagat discuss the 3 types of practice each of us needs to cultivate consistently to create magnetism, sexual polarity and spiritual intimacy.  Included in this discussion is also

    Using Praise to Shape Your Relationship

    Using Praise to Shape Your Relationship

    Leading the feminine through praise as a force for shaping your relationship

    This is often an area of tremendous missed opportunity, as well as one of deep pain and misunderstanding. 

    Ways of Being That Evoke the Best in Your Partner

    Ways of Being That Evoke the Best in Your Partner

    In this 5 minute video, John and Guru Jagat talk about how subtle shifts in perspective can relax, support and really serve your partner. This may require giving up the need to be right and seeing their greatest possibility (rather than what they don't do or where they fall short).

    WAITING FOR A MAN TO TAKE THE LEAD

    WAITING FOR A MAN TO TAKE THE LEAD

    On one hand, you want him to lead you, and on the other, if nothing is happening, it is natural for you to step in and take charge. The problem is this will over the long haul, destroy sexual polarity and become castrating for him. In the this short video, John discusses the art of helping a man strengthen his capacity to take the lead in the relationship. 

    THE LAWS OF LOVE [VIDEO: PART 2]

    THE LAWS OF LOVE [VIDEO: PART 2]

    In the second video of this three part series, "The Laws of Love,"  John Wineland and Guru Jagat discuss 5 essential ways of being, in service of love.  

    Fuck Hacking, Go Deep

    Fuck Hacking, Go Deep

    By John Wineland

    If you want your life to unfold as a work of art that expresses the boundless expanse of your consciousness, of who you truly are as a man, Fuck Hacking, Go Deep!